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The key to a successful relationship basically boils down to the simple things that we often take for granted or or dismiss as unimportant. Follow these tips for a successful relationship.

Top 10 Tips For A Successful Relationship


1. Spend Quality Time Together

Without quality time together, your relationship will not survive. Aim to devote at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when the two of you spend time exclusively together. They is nothing like ‘date night’ to look forward to and to remind each other how special you both are to each other.

2. Be Flexible

A good relationship is built on compromise and a lot of give and take from both of you. This will allow you both want to feel secure within the relationship.

3. Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

Often those little things that first attracted you to your partner can turn into nasty annoying habits. Learn to love your partner warts and all. Do no try to change them into something they are not, after all you fell in love with them just the way they were.

4. Communicate

Communication is vital to all healthy relationships. Listen to your partner and avoid blame and judgement. Do not let your emotions dictate your behaviour. Remember just talking things over can help you to both have a deeper understanding of each other.

5. Keep It Spicy In The Bedroom

Your sex life may start to decrease over the years, but there is no need to accept this as an unavoidable fate. As soon as you notice a wane in the bedroom, address it with your partner and work out why, and what to do to bring back the passion. Maybe one of your prefers more sex than the other. Why not experiment with new ideas in the bedroom. Role play, dressing up, or maybe take your sex life out of the bedroom and try new places. The introduction of marital aids into the relationship can also help to spice things up. Whatever you decide, remember communication is vital.

6. Argue Constructively

Learn to argue well. Never say something to your partner that you would not want to hear said back. Just remember, the one good thing they say about arguing, aside from clearing the air, is the making up afterwards.

7. Learn The Art Of Forgiveness

There is no point festering on something that your partner has done. It will eat away at both you and the relationship. If you know you will never forgive your partner over something important, and feel the trust can never be regained then give yourself, and him a break and start again, with someone new.

8. Do Not Let Finances Get In The Way

Money is one of the top conflicts between most couples. For the relationship to work, you need to address any finances problems and maybe even work out a budget.

9. Maintain Your Independence

Try to keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell your partner how much you need them, but do not get too dependent on them and cling to them all the time, as that can make your partner feel trapped. On the flip side of this, do not allow your partner to think you do not need them, by going or doing things without them. Try to keep a happy and healthy balance between the two.

10. Seek Professional Help If Necessary

Do not ever think that going to counselling is a sign of a failed relationship. It can turn a bad relationship around and can also turn an average relationship into an excellent one. More and more people are turning to counselling today than ever, it shows you are both prepared to try and make things better, which cannot be a bad thing at all.

The fact remains, that whether you are dating or married, relationships are hard. It takes 100% commitment from both of you. However, healthy and long-lasting relationships are achievable and many couples have proven just that. Not everything is always going to be perfect but if you both choose to make it work then it can. And remember it’s the little things that you sometimes do that can go a long way to making your relationship work.


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